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Circle Of Friends

“I then let them know that Scooby Doo doesn’t talk like everyone else -“but he’s lots of fun and a cool dude to hang out with right?”

Circle Of FriendsDescription of a “Circle of Friends

If your child has or is being teased, the following is an effective evidence-based technique that I first learned about from an award-winning Teacher of Excellence recipient Educational Consultant, and NJ State Teacher Representative Cherab’s Vice President Cheryl Bennett Johnson SLS MA.    I first used this successfully for my own children if there were any issues with bullying at school, and now use the same method on a community level with the highly effective Cherab Foundation initiative crowdFunnit throwing community birthday parties for special needs children to foster acceptance and compassion for those children that believe the world doesn’t like them, and need a little help making friends.

Children on the neurological spectrum may be ignored, or bullied by peers because of their differences, and due to this, they may behave inappropriately because they experience anxiety or even depression from being friendless.

The ‘circle of friends’ approach, sometimes known as the friendship circle, or circle of support, is a powerful tool for inclusion involving children sitting in a circle with their teacher using method-specific techniques and strategies to promote self-esteem, foster acceptance and compassion, reduce bullying and alienation while fostering positive classroom relationships.  It is supported by theories of self-esteem, emotional intelligence, and voice and participation theory, some that date back to the early 1900s.

The ‘circle of friends’ approach  (Forest et al, 1993: Newton and Wilson 1999; Taylor 1996, 1997) offers a structured intervention based on the belief that a person’s judgments about their behavior and that of others can be influenced by the social situation.  The intervention uses small-group sessions to give one specific child positive attention to help them interpret and respond to their environment and social situations with understanding.

The theoretical underpinnings for the many and varied traditional circle time sessions and small-group approaches are far-reaching and may well cite links to a person-centred counselling approach (Mead 1934; Rogers 1961, 1970); social learning theory (Bandura 1977); the circle of friends intervention approach (Newton and Wilson 1999; Taylor 1996, 1997); emotional literacy programmes (Morris and Casey 2005; Morris and Morris 2002); behavioural approached (Cooper, Smith and Upton 1994); and the eco-systemic approach Mosley 1993, 1996, 1998).

The circle of friends remains in the literature today even though many parents still don’t know about it, or how successful it is to help reduce and eliminate bullying.   In the UK in 1998,  Jennifer Mosley published the book ‘Quality Circle Time in the Primary Classroom: Your Essential Guide to Enhancing Self-esteem, Self-discipline and Positive Relationships’  and developed the whole school approach to the use of circle time (another name used for circle of friendship)

The main aims of circle of friends are:

  • To increase the level of acceptance and inclusion of pupils who are currently deemed to be excluded from the peer group
  • To harness and further develop the skills of pupils who are already considered to be highly skilled in terms of providing friendship and support to others
  • To encourage staff to reflect upon their own views and practices in order to develop more inclusive approaches, resources, and policies.
  • To impact positively upon whole school structures and systems via encouraging a
    review by the whole school community as to how these can be made more inclusive
  • To promote a cultured ethos of social support which encourages all staff and pupils to utilize and develop their own skills in terms of valuing and supporting others.
  • To encourage the continued and on-going use of ‘support teams’ in order to ensure the inclusion of all pupils in the school context
  • To further develop the social and emotional skills of those pupils identified as
    members of the group, for example, the ability to listen, to reflect, to evaluate, to
    empathize, to problem solve, to understand, identify and cope effectively with feelings (of self and others)

Success

When the teacher/facilitator effectively supports the Circle of Friends participants in delivering the intervention, positive outcomes are generally guaranteed. The target student will hopefully have gained in three key areas and be more able to:

  • Effectively manage his/her behavior in school
  • Built positive relationships with peers
  • Improved his/her self-concept and self-esteem

The Circle of Friends group will also clearly have benefitted in terms of developing their own pro-social skills, empathy, ability to analyze others’ behavior and increased their awareness of the value and importance of including others in positive and meaningful relationships. As adults, we should never underestimate the latter.

As Newton and Wilson (1996) explain, ‘we have underestimated the therapeutic power of acceptance and overemphasized the negative influence of the peer group. The reality is that there are enormous benefits to all of the strengths of the natural peer group can be realized to support the vulnerable individual.’

Circle of friends has been found highly effective. One case study provided a fascinating insight into how the behavior of a child, previously isolated, changed to such a degree that she became a valued and accepted member of the class. Although the wide support that circle‐time has gained has largely been in primary schools, it appears to be enjoying similar success elsewhere.

Inspired by the work of numerous educators and researchers I’ve developed my own version of the circle of friends to help children with communication impairments that I’ve used with both of my boys which helped not just reduce but virtually eliminate bullying.  Through the Cherab Foundation, our CrowdFunnit initiative is taking a version of the circle of friends I used with my own boys to the community to help a student who believes they are alone in the world without friends.  Both of these programs, both school and community help foster acceptance and compassion to proactively reduce and eliminate bullying and alienation.   If your child needs help, please contact us

William is one example of a life that was turned around by the Cherab Foundation crowdFunnit program.  From the day after his birthday party till now over a year later he has friends, his grades and confidence have gone up, and as William says, “I like me now..if that makes sense”

Circle of friends to reduce bullying

Some children can be identified as being predisposed to become a victim of bullying. Typical features include:

  • anxious temperament
  • low self-esteem
  • insecurity and lack of friends
  • emotionally reactive
  • easily dominated
  • not particularly aggressive

Traditionally How Circle of Friends Works
Once the vulnerable student who is evidently in need of peer support has been identified, the teacher/facilitator can arrange to conduct the introductory session with the whole class/form group (in the absence of the target student). The ‘key’ activity undertaken is to complete a Relationship Circles Activity. This involves students in thinking about the people in their lives, family, friends and acquaintances and writing their names in a series of concentric circles. Instructions might be as follows:

  1. Put the name of those you are closest to in circle 1, usually your family, sometimes
    described as people you live with or people you like to hug (people who love you
    most).
  2. Your very best friends in circle 2 but not quite as close as circle 1.
  3. Your wider friends in circle 3, maybe people in groups, scouts or a team. Place those who are paid to help you in circle 4, these include people like doctors and teachers.

According to a 1998 study ‘Practical approaches to reduce the impact of bullying.’ “Adults who look after children should be aware that these children are vulnerable to the attention of bullies. Supervision of children after an episode of bullying must be sufficient to protect potential victims. Classroom-based interventions such as “circle of friends” may promote victims’ prosocial behavior.”

According to PACER’s online National Bullying Prevention Center, “One study shows that 60 percent of students with disabilities report being bullied regularly compared with 25 percent of all students.”

Bullying is a form of youth violence.  Students who experience bullying are at increased risk for depression, anxiety, sleep difficulties, and lower academic achievement (Center for Disease Control, 2017).

A circle of friends is when you bring together all the children in the class. This would include your child of course. The discussion would be right in front of (your child) where (your child)’s speech disorder would be talked about, as well as how frustrating it is to communicate and how painful it is to be teased about it, etc. (your child) can add to the conversation if he wants, and everyone shares and learns.

Cheryl says it works so well that then the children in the circle of friends go out of their way to protect and watch over and translate for the child with the communication problem. Don’t just stick to the school either -do this with neighborhood children too.

Example of a Small “Circle of Friends!” by Lisa Geng

So how did I address the teasing when my son Tanner was teased in kindergarten?

Since I don’t believe in getting upset with children, especially kindergarten age children, and don’t believe lectures would work for this age anyway, I scheduled a “circle of friends” which the school SLP also took part in. I went into the class and with Tanner sitting right there I opened up with a question. “If someone from the cartoon Scooby Doo was out in the hallway right now…who would you want it to be? Scooby? Velma? Shaggy?” (knowing, of course, that just about all kids would choose Scooby which of course they did)

I then let them know that Scooby doesn’t talk like everyone else -“but he’s lots of fun and a cool dude to hang out with right?” Then I read a short Winnie the Pooh book about feelings -and used quick examples they could relate to for each feeling. When I came to sad – I talked about Tanner….and how he is sad when someone laughs at the way he talks. I explained to the class about how Tanner had high fevers as a baby that put a boo boo in his brain -but that he is very smart and has been working hard at learning to talk for years now. I talked about children that are deaf or that have other impairments (and the SLP and OT had brought in some of the children in the school in wheelchairs)

By this time -all the children were surrounding Tanner and putting their hands around him hugging him. We then went around the room and each child talked about something that they had trouble doing at first -and did anyone ever laugh at them while they were learning.  All the children brought up something that they had to learn -and some talked about how someone laughed at them when they fell off the bike, etc. However, when we got to the little boy that had teased Tanner he could not think of anything that he didn’t know how to do – he was the only one. The teacher said “Oh come on ____ when you were a little tiny baby you didn’t know how to skateboard now, did you? You had to learn that.” He agreed. I then talked about all the things that Tanner is really good at, and that “just like Scooby” Tanner may not talk like everyone else -but that doesn’t mean he’s not a cool dude to hang out with.

I then walked out to the hallway and got a bag of Scooby Doo party favor type toys and said: “Scooby left these for all of you guys!” The above was quick – but huge wonderful impact.

Scooby Doo doesn't talk like everyone else --but he's lots of fun and a cool dude to hang out with right--

After that day -there was never teasing again -and even the one kid that had teased Tanner was now hanging out with Tanner. There was an immediate improvement in Tanner’s speech and confidence.  And…by the way, he then talked to me about what had happened and (finally) told me about how this little boy laughed when he talked. Even though the teacher said it was only for one week -I’m 100% convinced that she just was not aware of it prior -it apparently was going on 2 weeks prior.

Perhaps it’s due to that experience early on that Tanner is never teased now. He knows how to handle it -it’s hard for a bully to tease someone who doesn’t get upset.

There are two chapters in The Late Talker book devoted to dealing with parent or child frustrations.

More Tips On How To Prevent Or Deal With Bullying For A Speech Impaired Child

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LISA GENG

Author and Executive Director of The Cherab Foundation
Lisa Geng got her start as a designer, patented inventor, and creator in the fashion, toy, and film industries, but after the early diagnosis of her young children, he entered the world of nonprofit, pilot studies, and advocacy. As the mother of two “late talkers,” she is the founder and president of the nonprofit CHERAB Foundation, co-author of the acclaimed book, The Late Talker, (St Martin’s Press 2003), and is instrumental in the development of IQed, a patented nutritional composition. Lisa recently served as a parent advocate on an AAN board for vaccines and is a member of CUE through Cochrane US. Lisa is currently working on a second book, The Late Talker Grows Up and serves as a Late Talkers, Silent Voices executive producer. She lives on the Treasure Coast of Florida.

Some useful references

  • Cowie, H. & Wallace, P. (2000) Peer Support in Action London: Sage Publications
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  • MacConville, R., & Rae, T. (2006) Teaching Peer Support for Caring and Cooperation Talk Time A Six Step Method London: Paul Chapman Publishing
  • Mackan, P., & Cormier, R. (1992) Dynamics of support circles Inclusion Papers Inclusion Press
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    Publishing
  • Mercer, N. (2000) Words and Minds London: Routledge
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  • Pearpoint, J., Forest, M., & Snow, J. (1993) The Inclusive Papers – Strategies to Make
    Inclusion Work Toronto: Inclusion Press
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    Press
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    Studies in Inclusive Education
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  • Scott Bellini, Lauren Gardner and Kimberly Markoff, Social Skill Interventions, Handbook of Autism and Pervasive Developmental Disorders, Fourth Edition, (2014).
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Why is CHERAB spelled with an A?

Q. Why is CHERAB spelled with an A and not a U? 

A. It’s all in the cheeks!

When my son Tanner was a preschool child his nickname was “cherub boy”  because even strangers would call him that and say he looked like a little angel.

Tanner was first diagnosed with apraxia in 1999 when he was around 3.  Back then there was little to no support for the rare orphan diagnosis called apraxia, and even less information.

I started a nonprofit and named it Children’s Apraxia Network which we nicknamed CAN -but within the first year, I saw members had children that were much older than my son, some teens.  I didn’t want to limit outreach to just those with young children so wanted to have a name that didn’t have children in it even though that was my focus for my own son at the time, and clearly a huge part of my group.  As you can see from this Inside Edition segment on Apraxia our outreach was large but included teens and young adults even early on (please note the crazy long website address at the time too)

Apraxia is a rare diagnosis and unlike autism there is very limited research.    We used to have a lot of in-person meetings and events out of 2 hospitals in NJ and I noticed that like my son Tanner the majority of the kids with apraxia have these adorable round cheeks that make them look like little cherubs -just like my son.  This is because most of them have something called hypotonia (low tone) in their body and typically also their face.  (see this page for more info)  When it’s in the oral area it may be diagnosed as dysarthria which is not uncommon as a dual diagnosis with apraxia.  You can see a TV segment with Tanner when he’s 5 along with Haily, also diagnosed with apraxia and see what I mean about the cheeks.

We called it Cherab with an A vs. a U to stand for Apraxia.  Cherab stans for what we’d provide support in Communication Help, Education Research, and the AB stands for Apraxia Base
You may not be aware that 64 percent of those with autism have apraxia according to one study and this is probably why so many of our members have children with autism.  We joke we should call it Communication Help, Education, Research, Apraxia Autism Base  -but the base of the Cherab Foundation is still the rare orphan diagnosis apraxia.

LISA GENG

Author and Executive Director of The Cherab Foundation
Lisa Geng got her start as a designer, patented inventor, and creator in the fashion, toy, and film industries, but after the early diagnosis of her young children, he entered the world of nonprofit, pilot studies, and advocacy. As the mother of two “late talkers,” she is the founder and president of the nonprofit CHERAB Foundation, co-author of the acclaimed book, The Late Talker, (St Martin’s Press 2003), and is instrumental in the development of IQed, a patented nutritional composition. Lisa served for years as a parent advocate on an AAN board for vaccines and is a member of CUE through Cochrane US. Lisa is currently working on a second book, The Late Talker Grows Up and serves as a Late Talkers, Silent Voices executive producer. She lives on the Treasure Coast of Florida.

Chris Ramirez’s 14th Birthday Invitation

“Bullying has left a mark on Chris’s soul.  As a result, he suffers bouts of both anxiety and depression that others hate him and is afraid to leave our house.  Chris who is on the autism spectrum desperately needs to know that he is worthy of having friends and that he is not alone” ~Mary Ramirez

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Party Details

Let’s let Chris know he does have friends! You are cordially invited to celebrate Chris’s 14th birthday party with him.  Thanks to all the community support, crowdFunnit is hosting a special, community birthday party in Chris’s honor, to bring an end to bullying and alienation while celebrating all that is good in life; friendship, kindness, and of course, cake from Seriangely’s Sweet Inspirations!  All are invited to the festivities to celebrate Chris’s 14th birthday which will include a special live appearance by National Recording Artist JessLee who was recently Team Blake on The Voice!

In addition, we will have appearances from  Superheroes, Ghostbusters,  a dance troupe, St. Lucie Sherrif’s K9 Unit, St Lucie County Fire DistrictKlutch the St Lucie Mets Mascot, along with bowling, games, a professional DJ, face painting, green screen dress-up photo booth, a face painting balloon artist, Guardian Angels, and of course, birthday cake, and so much more which take place:
Sunday, September 30, 2018, 1 PM – 3 PM in EST
Superplay USA 1600 NW Courtyard Circle Port St. Lucie, FL. 34986
RSVP here for your free ticket to help us plan accordingly (general admission is free)
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Donate to the Cherab Foundation as we begin to build our program with a committed goal to bring our birthday party initiative to every state in the U.S.
There is no admission cost to attend the party, however, we are looking to raise $500 towards basic party supplies and gifts for Chris. Any money over our goal can help others in need of support through the 501(c)3 Cherab Foundation which is the organization behind CrowdFunnit. Cherab Foundation provides evidence-based and integrative approaches to help children with therapy, nutrition, socialization/anti-bullying, and awareness. Every dollar helps. Thank you in advance!
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Chris’s Story

“Kids always have friends and all, and that just makes me sad because I had like no friends, and I’m like, ‘Man, I wish one day I had a friend,’” ~Chris Ramirez

Up until 2nd grade, Chris who has been diagnosed with ASD and ADHD was outgoing, reveled in making others laugh. Then things began to change. By 4th grade, he was teased constantly by his classmates for being different. Teasing turned into bullying and physical altercations by peers, classmates invading his privacy even in the school bathroom has made Chris fearful of leaving his house.   “Bullying has left a mark on Chris’s soul. There were almost half a dozen confirmed cases of bullying at school last year alone, and as a result, he suffers bouts of both anxiety and depression that others hate him.  He needs to know that he is worthy of having friends and that he is not alone.”  Mary added, “He’s built walls around him to keep other kids from hurting him. It’s those walls I want broken down.” Like all children, each year Chris wanted a birthday party with friends, but for the past seven years, he has celebrated only with family. “We spent hundreds of dollars on his birthday parties,” said Mary. “Chris waited and waited, and nobody came.” It’s been heartbreaking for Chris who desperately needs to know that he is worthy of having friends and that he is not alone.

Last summer he and his father attended the crowdFunnit celebration for William Morales in Port St. Lucie, FL and seeing a child that had been bullied have a party like that his hopes did a 180.  Now Chris will be the guest of honor at his own crowdFunnit party and welcomes the whole community to join him, on Sept 30th, 2018 to celebrate all those individuals and families out there feeling the same alienation. Inspired by previous crowdFunnit events, Mary Ramirez reached out on behalf of her son. “I have watched Chris go through so much heartache dealing with how he is different from other children his age. He fears to leave his home when other children want to spread their wings,” she said. Chris loves gaming and computers. He also loves swimming at the beach or pool, animals (his cats) and science. He loves to watch Mythbusters on TV with his older brother. Chris and crowdFunnit are calling all kind-hearted people interested in making friends. “I want there to be a common ground where he and others like him can feel safe to be themselves, do activities and enjoy life,” Mary said. That’s exactly the foundation of the crowdFunnit community party says founder Lisa Geng. “We are dedicated to improving the lives of those who are bullied and alienated, fostering acceptance, compassion, and friendship through open-invite birthday parties, community awareness, and common kindness.”  Lisa added, “ If you’re not able to RSVP your attendance, you can always donate to the organization as we begin to build our program with a committed goal to bring our birthday party initiative to every state in the U.S.”

Interview With Chris

crowdFunnit and the Ramirez family welcome families in the same situation as Chris’s family to share their stories and join us at the party. Please contact us and we can help  Equally important is the presence of compassionate individuals and families of all ages to come out and join the fun, share some cake and make a few new friends.

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“I just want Chris and children like him to enjoy life and all the wonderful things it offers.  Please help me and other moms like me find a happy place for our sons and daughters to live in. We need them to know that they are not alone.” ~Mary Ramirez

Send Chris A Card

Send Chris A Birthday Card!  For those unable to attend – we have firsthand knowledge that Chris loves receiving mail! Past years he’s received just a few cards from family. This year help us show Chris he’s loved by so many by upping that number to a few hundred.  The Cherab Foundation has partnered with CardFool so people can easily send him a birthday card. It’s a real snail mail card that you can personalize and CardFool will send right to Chris’s mailbox. Chris gets the card, our parent organization, The Cherab Foundation, gets a few bucks and you get a star for simply being so cool.. Cardfool’s donation of the net proceeds of your purchase back to the Cherab Foundation will, in turn, allow us to help even more children.  We really hope you can help Chris feel like a million bucks as he welcomes his 14th birthday.

If your child is being bullied or alienated, please contact us for help.  We also appreciate any donations to help more children. We are a grassroots 100 percent volunteer-based 501(c)3  Thank you so much and keep updated by our Facebook page or here at the Cherab Foundation. Go to top ^

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Refer a Child

If you know a child or teen that is bullied or alienated please let us know so we can help.  Refer a child here.

https://cherabfoundation.org/crowdfunnit/refer-a-child/

The Cherab Foundation Goal

Volunteer based since 2000, the Cherab Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit for children with neurological or genetic impairments that affect communication with a focus on Autism and Apraxia.  With your help, we can reach our goal to host at least one party every single month across all 50 States!  We are also launching a school-based program right here in South Florida, with a goal to reach every district in the country. This new program will expand upon the tools we’ve developed to encourage acceptance and compassion within their daily school environment where we feel the impact will be greatest.

CrowdFunnit, a project of the 501(c)3 Cherab Foundation, hosts HUGE Community Birthday Parties for friendless kids across the country. Featured in local and national news, we proactively fight bullying by bringing together like-minded people, raising awareness about differences and fostering acceptance and compassion. Volunteer-based since 2000, the Cherab Foundation is focused on helping children with neurological and genetic communication impairments such as autism and apraxia. . Donations are tax-deductible.  Federal tax ID number is 22-3685234

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